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Thursday, April 19, 2012

Mood Elevators

My list for All time mood elevators:

1. there will never be another tonight - Brayn Adams

2. 18 till i die  

3. Summer of 69

4. Cuts like Knife

5. viva la vida loca ( Spanish ) Ricky Martin

6. Cup of Life 

7. "Rubaroo"

8. "Rang De Basanti"

9. "Paathshaala"

10. "Socha Hai"

11. "Pichle Saat Dino Mein"  two versions

12. "Rock On!!"

13. "Sinbad The Sailor"

14. "Señorita"  with spanish romance

15. "Dil Dhadakne Do"

16. Ye Cheekati - Happy Days 

17. Cheliya Cheliya - Gharshana

18. maha maha my heart is very hot check it out!

and if you are reading this list, then by all means, this song will give words to your feelings,

         "Der Lagi Lekin". from Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara.



this list is specially to my dear buddy " Sri " . Hope you like it dear!.


Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Thesis Guide


Hardly a summer ago, in 2010, i was toiling, to get the best out of my graduate project work. Working in India's premier Metallurgy Lab was not easy by any standard. The quality had to be befitting it fame, and thanks to my Thesis Guide - Dr. NS, a PhD from IISc and gem of a kind of a person, we were the best in our Defence and Viva Voce.

Last December, one fine morning i got a surprise call from my Prof at the College. He wanted me to accommodate a few students at my R&D Facility for their B.Tech project work.  Though determined to help, i did not know how.

Back then i was not sure, how to go about, and who would guide them and facilitate. As things went by, and mails exchanged, approvals for them to work in the factory premises was obtained, on one condition, i was to take care of them completely, and not to bother any of the already busy managers and engineers ( as if i were free) . All formalities done, it all upon me now, to assign them work, getting the activities done, help them write their reports, correct them and facilitate the certification.

I talked to my manager and decided to assign them three projects, one each, in line with the R&D corporate requirements. All of them of high importance to the company, and a high quality work was obviously expected ( from me , not them mind you.)

Three boys had come on the said day. I was wondering how destiny had put me in the shoes of their "Guide" for their B.Tech project. i decided to stay upright and never be their College senior, but strictly their thesis guide and company employee.

Once, we were having lunch, Hyderabadi Biryani, Chole and Bature at Kamath Restaurent in Nampally, and during the conversation,  I mentioned to my friend, that i wished to join the academia after my career in the industry, and it was my sincere desire to share my vast experience and knowledge treasure that i was so beautifully blessed by my Professors and Preceptors. He exclaimed " You and Teaching?" . I said Yes, to which he replied, it requires a lot of patience, believe me.

Here I was to live it all. The coming days were a literal test to the varying degrees of patience and being kind to the young fellas. It was a challenging task, making them come in shoes, as a company policy. Arriving late was another issue. I had to answer the security incharge and the HR manager, for their late arrival, what ever the reason, I was responsible, as they were my college students ( !!?? ) . It was OK on their part, they were just doing their project and were not employees, yet discipline doesn't discriminate. It took two weeks time, and a few shopfloor entrance prohibition slips to set them right.


The real challenge for me was to digest the fact they learnt very little in the four year course. It was terribly irritating to receive wrong answers from "to be Metallurgists". Well, they are almost professionals, they are just awaiting the final sem exams and beyond which they will be into the job market, and were so poorly educated. Utterly wrong answers to simple practical aspects pissed me off, enraged , filled me with disgust. Some how, EVERY TIME i managed not to vent my true feelings and hurt them.

Getting them do their Literature survey was a 'next to impossible' task. It was only when i understood that they were the ones from the less fortunate batch of ignored intelligent students, the approach changed. I understood that they were here not to deliver for their projects but to 'bridge the gap'.

In the morning they had to work for their experimental and invariably we would have technical discussions. I would teach them the concepts to advanced metallurgy ( bulk metallic glasses, artificial neural networks, blast furnace calculations, steel making intricacies, banding and segregation in steel teeming and effects of rolling on final products, thermomechanical working and a list of other topics) starting from the atomic structure and crystal bonding, often with mundane and day-to-day examples like bread and butter, cycle balls, and razor blades and rasna ice cream.

We touched upon each and every subject that was a part of their curriculum. At the end of every session I would ask them to summarize the things that they learnt, which they did, reflecting their technical elevation.

These were undoubtedly the precious moments that were gifted to me, revisiting text books, ASM handbooks and like. Teaching indeed gave me deeper and better understanding of the already well versed concepts.

Weeks passed by and so their projects progressed (??) . Never had they in their career so far written anything on their own. This was particularly trying because i was loaded with my tight schedules, and I had to motivate them to write what ever they could.

Real test of patience was during this time. They would simply not write a page, because they believed they could not. Particularly one fellow, despite clear instructions, would invariably mess up the entire thing. He would get so confused that he would answer three different values, for the same question, three different times, during the same discussion. Phewww... i would fume with anger - how can you forget the results of your own hand performed experiment???, YET NOT YELL UPON HIM. I would Lovingly  ask him to be more careful in future, as could be a problem in long run.

All this demanded a lot of quality time, with mind open to think peacefull, parallely analyse results and properly frame technical english.

Well, it was the brilliance of my teachers that was manifesting in all these activities of composing their thesis and getting the experimental results and analysing them. Metallurgy is not as simple as it appears. It is actually simpler than that. Proper approach is all that is required.

Fortunately enough, one great thing that happened was, we rarely had to repeat any experiment, for doubt of the accuracy of results. My concept of the experiment clicked almost every time and they had to be just documented and interpreted properly. It was that simple for them.

Towards the completion of the thesis, four months after they started their works, today they are well off technically, able to write and structure their reports and best of all, I just talked to their Head of the Department, who happily said that he was very pleased with work and the work should get published. I was also (unofficially) told they would get very good marks.

Looking back, these students who were not the best of the lot, who couldnt make it to the Top Labs and companies. These were intelligent boys with potential, but were not properly groomed through their entire graduation. For that matter, every individual has that potential, it is the efficiency of the teacher to tap it properly. It was my fortune, do it in few months, what so many of their teachers could not do over years

I take pride in stating this.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Wish-wah-mitra

As a part of my annual sacred recitation of Srimad Valmiki Ramayana, which usually starts on the Birthday of the Scion of the Ikshwaku dynasty - Ramanavami, yesterday i read through the portion where Valmiki takes the center stage.

I shall not go into the lengthy story of the Sage and his intense penance, his role in the sacred epic etc, one must be knowing the story, else can be read on some very good illustrative websites.

Reading Ramayana for the past three years or so, i must mention that each iteration of the recitation has been as fresh and as new as the first one, with the very same verses and stories carrying a different flavour and understanding.

I wanted to share this understanding, as i felt it would be worth, and of help to some one some time.

Vishwamitra - meaning the Universal Friend - a very powerful and charming, a very " Leo " type of charecter appears in the first Canto of the book - the Baala Kanda.

Vishwamitra is responsible for Rama's visit to the forests, where in Rama acquires a lot knowledge and wisdom about various aspects of life. Numerous stories, often moral stories, adventurous, spiritual, in nature are narrated to Rama by Vishwamitra.

As the trio, Vishwamitra, Rama, Lakshmana pass through the forests, Rama inquisitively enquires about the specialities of numerous places and sites that they see on the way. These stories are really wonderful, and worth reading for anyone who loves reading stories and classical literature.

For the specific purpose of protecting Yaga, Vishwamitra initiates Rama to Bala and Ati-Bala mantras, that carry the potency to confer strength and vigour without the need of food for days together. He also confers Rama with most powerful artillery and Astras - weapons that take charge when invoked by specific mantras including Bhramastra - the ultimate missile ever made.

Vishwamitra is the one who takes Rama to Mithila, where Rama strings Siva's Bow, an episode that culminates with the sacred wedlock of Rama and Sita.

On the entire scale of Ramayana, never Vishwamitra appears again, after taking leave from the august assembly of the marriage party after profusely blessing the new couples.

summary: He is responsible in securing Rama all the weaponry that Rama would be needing in the battle against Ravana, and also is key in fixing the alliance between the Families of Surya and Videha.

Ok, now where am i heading towards?

While was ruminating on this, I realised, that indeed, I too had several Vishwamitras ( Universal Friend's Manifestation) in my life.

They come for a specific purpose, for which a 'friendship' is built for a span of time and when cosmic purpose is fulfilled, disappear.

I used to wonder, if we have become adults, where our careers, and personal matters are at a higher priority than once all important friendhip - this is possibly partially true, but a more complete truth is - irrespective our realizing or not, they have come, played their appointed role and have left. So did we in their lives. It is mutual.

I believe in a universal connection - relation - and all of us are connected, and subtly related. This relation is not a function of our being aware of it or not. It exists, and we - all we know today - have been together for may past births.

It is just in this life, at an appointed time, one of our cosmic connection appears, plays the part - for our spiritual / cosmic elevation.

Wish-wah-mitra - an expression, wah for the wish fulfilling mitra (Universal friend)

How true, yet oblivious.

The results of Recitation of Ramayana are many. Such insights and reflections are a few of the many spin offs.

If u happen to read the entire lengthy essay, do post your comment.

Friends ? !



My rules of friendship :


1. Remain equally loyal in good & bad times


2. Always do what you say you will do.


3. Always be grateful . Never take for granted.


4. Most precious thing that can be given - taken - shared - TIME.


5. Communicate often.


6. Let friendship not lie in cold storage. Make it alive and dynamic.


7. Respect Privacy.


8. Pray together. Nothing can bond stronger.


9. Hypocrisy is the deadliest poison. Be assured the day it uncovers itself the strongest bonds will shatter.


10. Be selfish with your friend, not to him.


11. Never attempt to save a friendship. It will fade anyways.


12. Do not lecture. If he is your friend, then by all chance knows equally well.


13. Listen when spoken. Speak when silent.


14. Words dissolve in air - memories of feelings do not.


15. If you can - HELP.


16. Never help as giver. Give and take business ruins friendship. Offer with love. Its worth multiplies.


18. Keep an account of acts that reflect inner love. Not of petty things and owes.
19. Remember, it takes two to clap.


20. Do not attempt to cover up. Have the guts and confidence to accept - if necessary confess.


21. Dont try. Just Be.


22. It is the truest sign of friendship if your friend can dissolve your fears, and wipe your tears even without you telling him. He without letting you know !!


23. Have the intimacy to slap. to hug also.


24. It is your shortcoming if your is feeling low, is missing you. never his !


25. Drop, if it is for mutual good. Let go if needed.

26. Forgive and Forget.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Touch of True Love

My Manager had arranged for a consultant to come to factory. That gentleman is county’s top notch scientist in the area of our work.
He had agreed to visit us and sent a mail regarding his visit, in which he mentioned that a friend of his will also accompany him on his visit. I was assigned the duty of bringing them to the factory from their house.
So I call the guest and ask for his house address. He directed me to call his friend and pick him up first, then we could go to the later’s house.
Now I discover that the other person is my B.Tech thesis guide with whom I worked for quite a long time and indeed moulded me into the research culture. I never et / could actually meet him afte college.
I call my research guide. He was very happy to hear from me, now that i work for an MNC and have become of good service and career. I could feel his genuine joy through the phone.
 I noted down his address and said I will come and pick him at his house the next day.
Fine.
The following day, I go to his house. I was surprised to see the name of his house. I asked “Sir is it your own house?” He said yes. I said “ Sir, that name is my favourite name”. O yes, that is my God’s residence name. The abode of Sathya Sai Baba!
I was so shocked! when working together in the past, we never knew that we were Sai devotees, but HE knew who were / are …
Looking back, now everything makes perfect sense. Undoubtedly my thesis was the best, my research work got published in journals, I learnt a lot, and got firm foundation in research culture.
HE said “ All coincident events are in fact God incidents” . Nothing happens by chance. It is all His choice. We are mere puppets.
Though it was surprising revelation for us, He put us together, for our good - ( is actually demeaning to say " HE fully knows this", it is "obvious" HE knows this! )
Is this not an experience of a touch of True Love?
He is with us, in US.